Elaine Smith Writes

Anything She Wants

Another way

Can you find one?

Sometimes, you win a race, because you are the only one who won’t quit.  (Does The Tortoise and the Hare ring any bells?)  Sheer dogged persistence can get you there, and the further you slog along, the less competition remains.

On the other hand, there is that famous Einstein quote in which insanity is defined as “doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results.”

The tip for the day is keep going, but keep evaluating.  Always ask yourself can you find another way?

If someone in your life is not giving you what you need, can you find another way to ask for it?

If you aren’t achieving your objective, can you find another way to go about pursuing it?

If I’m writing a computer program and it doesn’t work, I have to find another way or give up on whatever achievement it’s designed to accomplish.

Inevitably, there are times when I just don’t know enough.  My latest javascript project comes to mind.  I would really like to give it up.  Just quit.  But, I remember what Thomas Edison said while searching for the proper material to make a filament for a light bulb:  I have not failed.  I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.

When the 10,000th way doesn’t work, it is really easy to become discouraged and frustrated.  It’s very easy to fear another 10,000 unsuccessful attempts.  But, Edison also said, Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Thomas Edison is the fourth most prolific inventor in recorded history.  And,  yes, he is famous for never giving up.   It may be more important, however, to realize that he didn’t just keep trying the same thing over and over.  He tried different things.

So, yes, of course, keep going—and as you’re going, remember to ask yourself—Could there another way?

Nothing in the world

Can take the place of persistence.

I’ve mentioned part of this quote from Calvin Coolidge previously.  Here, as a matter of fact.

The whole quote—one of my favorites is:

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.  Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent.  Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.  Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.  Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan Press On! has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.

The reason I bring it up today is that I am thankful for persistence.

Today is the 180th straight day of blog posts here.  Six months.  Six months of figuring out something to post, of preparing it, of setting up the appropriate links, adding the appropriate tags, scheduling the post and hitting the Publish button.

If you think that’s easy, you’ve never tried it.

But, I made a commitment to myself that I was going to do it, and I have persisted.  Some posts have been better than others.  Some days, I have had to drag my feet out of the muck and mud of I-don’t-feel-like=it, and push through the boy-this-post-stinks, and overcome the is-anybody-there-nobody’s-reading-it-anyway bugaboo.  (“Bugaboo” — ‘now there’s a word to lift your hat to.’*)

So, I’m thankful for persistence, today.

Every time you face a challenge you get better at it.  Not only do you get better at achieving that particular goal, you get better at achieving all goals.  Once you prove that you can, it’s very hard to fall back on ‘I can’t.’

I was reminded of this recently, not only by my 180 day anniversary, but also by one of those not-so-rare bursts of synchronicity in a post on this same topic over at Dumb Little Man.  (Good blog, Dumb Little Man.  Just FYI.)

Of course, later today, persistence in dieting (another of my current goals, albeit a bit half-hearted) will likely fall by the wayside.  I’m thinking fresh baked chocolate cookies and vanilla ice cream—a treat I first had at Joe Allen’s in the heart of the Theatre District in NYC.  (I think Joe Allen’s may be the first restaurant I ever went to in NY after I moved there—although I didn’t have the cookies and ice cream that time.)

You have to have a balance, after all.  Dieting can pause for a moment for a little celebration.

180 days!

 


* Luce, William (and Emily Dickinson), The Belle of Amherst

It matters how you finish

Try again – “Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.*

Instead of wondering on this Wondering Wednesday, I’m going to show you a Wonder.  Check out this video of motivational speaker, Nick Vujicic.

 

How many of us get a rejection letter and give up?

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated failures. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.“– Calvin Coolidge

Maybe you want to get that play or novel out of the drawer and try again?